一定要生仔?

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昨日睇咗一篇報導話一位老公欲追生仔而其老婆以經濟原因而拒絕後,老公就對老婆動粗及最後引致警察到場解決問題。睇完呢篇報導後我真的唔明呢個年代仲有咁多人仲咁唔開明?

我有兩個女,好多時成日就會被人追問會否生仔?難道沒有生仔就係千古罪人?會遺憾終生?我覺得呢個年代嘅女性唔應該將呢樣嘢變成一個𣕧鎖,我同老公未生前已商討無論男女都只會生兩個,之前我亦講過懷孕到生都唔係最辛苦,而係教養小朋友才是一門學問,如果自己生咁多又唔可以教育好佢,為何只為傳宗接代而生育?

曾經有朋友問我會否去其他國家接受人工受孕並選擇性別,我話我唔會。首先我還有生育能力,無須因為性別而揀人工受孕。第二,如果老公因為我無生仔為藉口而揾小三,我覺得呢個人亦無需留戀。其實眼見好多就算老婆有仔,個老公都會有小三,所以唔係生咗個仔=老公唔揾小三。如果老公堅持生仔,咁樣我覺得佢只當老婆係生仔機器。第三,我覺得男或女都係上天賜比自己嘅禮物,有時強求也未必係一件好事。其實無論男女都係自己骨肉,點解因為迂腐思想影響夫妻關係?

我嘅爺爺係好傳統一定要生仔嘅人,佢有十幾個孩子(男女各一半),佢最希望有人幫佢開枝散葉。雖然有好多仔,但最終得我爸爸幫佢散葉,而我弟弟會否為佢開枝散葉佢都已睇不到了。根本傳宗接代並非可操縱於你手,唔係話生咗仔就成個家族可以順利延續下去,如果個仔或孫唔生,傳宗接代亦不會繼續,所以不需將責任歸咎於自己,有時做人唔好太執著,尤其呢個世代大家唔好再因呢d咁迂腐思想影響自己!

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